Your core values are the deeper principles that influence how you make decisions, what feels meaningful to you, and what makes a life feel like your life.

Values aren't goals or a checklist of things you want. They're the underlying forces that help explain why you want what you want.

As we change, the way we prioritize and express our values can change too. Revisiting them periodically can help you see whether the life you're living still reflects what matters most to you.

HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES

• PERUSE THE LIST AND WRITE DOWN AS MANY THAT STAND OUT TO YOU

• THEY CAN BE ASPIRATIONAL VALUES OR ONES YOU HAVE CURRENTLY

• REFLECT ON YOUR LARGE SELECTION AND NARROW IT DOWN TO TEN

  NOW COMES A CHALLENGE

• PARE DOWN YOUR VALUES LIST TO JUST 5 CORE VALUES

• JOURNAL ABOUT WHAT THESE VALUES MEAN TO YOU, WHY THEY ARE IMPORTANT AND HOW THEY’VE INFLUENCED YOU

• FOR ANY LIFE DECISIONS, CONSULT YOUR PERSONAL VALUES LIST

• WRITE THE VALUES ON A POST-IT SO YOU CAN KEEP IT FRESH IN YOUR MIND

VALUES LIST

• Aesthetics

• Assertiveness

• Awareness

• Capability

• Collaboration

• Credibility

• Decisiveness

• Dignity

• Drive

• Eagerness

• Enthusiasm

• Exploration

• Enlightened

• Focus

• Growth

• Honor

• Hospitality

• Innovation

• Introversion

• Love

• Maturity

• Noble

• Organic

• Power

• Persuasive

• Pleasure

• Reliability

• Reason

• Relaxation

• Sensitivity

• Self-discipline

• Status

• Support

• Synergy

• Thoughtfulness

• Togetherness

• Unity

• Vision

• Vigilant

• Willingness

• Ambition

• Approachability

• Analytical

• Caution

• Commitment

• Curiosity

• Dependability

• Diligence

• Deliberate

• Education

• Excellence

• Extroversion

• Fairness

• Family

• Flexibility

• Gratitude

• Honesty

• Health

• Insightfulness

• Intuition

• Kindness

• Learning

• Meticulous

• Open-minded

• Observant

• Perfection

• Pragmatic

• Punctuality

• Resolve

• Reflection

• Renewal

• Serenity

• Sincerity

• Strength

• Self-confidence

• Transcendence

• Travel

• Uplifting

• Vulnerability

• Wisdom

• Acceptance

• Adaptability

• Balance

• Cheerfulness

• Compassion

• Control

• Devotion

• Discretion

• Down to Earth

• Efficiency

• Equality

• Expertise

• Fearless

• Freedom

• Generosity

• Hopefulness

• Helpfulness

• Integrity

• Inventive

• Knowledge

• Luxury

• Minimalism

• Optimistic

• Objective

• Patience

• Preparedness

• Prosperous

• Resourceful

• Resilience

• Radiance

• Simplicity

• Self-awareness

• Sympathy

• Sentimental

• Tolerance

• Truth

• Understanding

• Vitality

• Wonder

• Worthiness

• Achievement

• Appreciation

• Attentiveness

• Calm

• Change

• Community

• Creativity

• Contentment

• Discovery

• Duty

• Distinguished

• Empathy

• Experience

• Fluency

• Flamboyant

• Happiness

• Humor

• Independence

• Intelligence

• Justice

• Loyalty

• Mastery

• Methodical

• Nurturing

• Organization

• Persistence

• Privacy

• Perseverance

• Professionalism

• Rationality

• Security

• Solidarity

• Stability

• Self-reliance

• Service

• Teamwork

• Trust

• Variety

• Wealth

• Zeal

Now Ask Yourself…

Does the life I'm living now give me enough opportunity to express these values?

Does my current life reflect what I say matters most to me?

Where am I living in alignment with my values?

Where have I drifted away from them?

And what is one small change I could make that would bring my life closer to what matters most?

Perhaps it’s time to hold yourself accountable on some specific action steps? Let’s work together for just six weeks and let me help you step into the upgraded version of yourself that you want to be.

The 6 Weeks To Success Package Gives You a Fresh Start

The time is now to do a complete 180 in your life. Whether you’re entering retirement, decluttering or are thinking of making an international move, working with me for 6 weeks will give you the results you’re looking for.

Here’s what we’ll pack in to our 6 weeks together:

• One hour initial focus discussion and review of your personal profile questionnaire.

• Select one goal and discover why this is important to you.

• Five weekly discovery and accountability sessions of 30 minutes.

• Create a success focused action plan for each week.

• Weekly review of new actions, behaviors, thoughts, etc. Troubleshooting and success celebration.

• Final session focus on maintaining momentum.

• Unlimited eMail support.

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