Soul Garden Healing®

Our Soul's live in the garden of life. The grieving process takes us through different seasons. What season are you in?

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Group Coaching

I think of our souls as beautiful flowers in the garden of life - and sometimes things happen that crush our petals and weaken our stems. Whether you're coping with a divorce or break-up, job-loss or empty nest syndrome - you may have an ache in your heart and your spirit may feel withered.

I've been there. When my marriage ended abruptly, I sunk to the depths of depression and felt abandoned and so alone. I wanted to die. My whole identity was wrapped up in being his wife and my self worth was only based on his approval of me.

My healing journey led me to my passion to help others get through their heartbreak and know they are not alone.


Groups will be limited in size to give you the most personalized attention at an affordable group coaching rate. Eight weeks of supportive sessions via a group coaching call, private Facebook community and email support as needed.

We'll start with an individual phone conversation - so I can learn what's going on for you right now and I will share information to help you feel better immediately.


Fill out the form below and we'll schedule a time to talk and reserve your spot in the garden.

Individual Coaching

Going through a divorce can be more intense than a loss through death.  My own experience nearly broke me. 

"I'd heard divorce was like a death, but this was different - this was my death." PBH

Are you feeling:

  • Lost ~ you thought your marriage was forever, now you're unanchored.
  • Scared ~ you have no idea how you'll get through this and what the future looks like.
  • Confused ~ how did you miss the signs that the marriage was in such deep trouble?
  • Anxious ~ you might feel an inner tremble, unable to sleep and have racing thoughts.
  • Betrayed ~ their infidelity has you questioning if you ever really knew them.

 you're not alone 

The news of the end of my marriage came suddenly and felt like an amputation. Because I'd been completely dependent upon my spouse for my sense of identity,                                                                                                                           I didn't know who I was without him                                                         The end of your relationship may have been gradual over time and you may even have been the one to initiate the split and yet you feel like they're the one who left you. Heartbreak is heartbreak, no matter which direction it comes from.                                                                                                                                                                         I felt abandoned, alone and scared                                                              I knew from the beginning that I wanted to emerge from the experience a whole, balanced, healthy, confident, peaceful and happy woman.                                                                                                                                                                    I had no idea HOW to grieve and heal

I can help you on your path of grieving the loss of what was, what you thought would be 'forever' and the person you were. Let me show you How to get over a heartbreak. 

Are you:

  • Wanting to avoid the pain?
  • Numbing out, acting out?
  • Not getting the support you need?

I understand. I am the Been There - Done That coach. Really. Did you read my book? Yup, been there. Done that. And I don't want you to experience what I did.

with my coaching, i will guide you to avoid the missteps i made

My path was bumpy. But now, having become a trained life coach and certified in a program called 'Infinite Possibilities', created by Mike Dooley, of the film, "The Secret", and who authored the book, 'Infinite Possibilities', I am educated in the field of personal development and Law Of Attraction and practice these principles in my life to the best of my ability each beautiful day.

Who better to help you through your heartbreak and self discovery than someone who understands exactly what you are going through?

My compassionate guidance will help you get through this most difficult time. You have embarked on a path of self discovery and I can show you the way.

you don't have to go through this alone

Please call me to discuss my coaching guidance. Let's just chat - tell me what's going on for you and where you are in the process of your divorce, break-up or self discovery. There is a beautiful life after divorce, I promise. 805 242 6986.

Are you:

  • Falling ~ feeling out of control, swirling in chaos?
  • Frozen ~ feeling numbed and paralyzed?
  • Defrosting ~ starting to really feel the stinging pain?
  • Drought ~ feeling parched and dry like a barren wasteland?
  • Tilling The Soil ~ feeling like you want to plant new seeds?
  • Dormancy ~ you planted some seeds but nothing feels like it's happening?

Send me your question, thoughts, where are you in the process of becoming?

You will get through this.  

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"Patty's advice and understanding was invaluable. She instinctively knew when to push me to the next level and knew when to pause. She is compassionate and funny and together we helped me break some old patterns (negative ones) and replace them with positive tools to use in the situations that challenge me. One thing I loved about working with Patty was together we really focused on results. If a technique didn't work for me we ditched it and found something that did. Life is good at throwing us curves and since spending time with Patty and putting into practice the advice she gave me and things to do when I hit my personal walls I am much better at handling them!"  -  Paula S.

"Patty and I bonded immediately at a conference that we met at. We bonded over the heart break every woman feels at the disillusionment of "happily ever after", the ending of a marriage. She had already gone through the dark night of her soul, and I was about to embark upon mine. Our experiences were very similar and so was the dark realization that there was no "trying harder" to "fix" the men in our marriage. All signs pointed to an end, and all of the painful emotions every woman must walk through to get to freedom: sadness, fear, anxiety, depression, loneliness, second guessing oneself, memories both painful and happy, and the need to figure out who you are now. After the conference Patty was there for me every step of the way. We spoke on the phone, face book, texts. Patty was like a second mother to me, coaching me on through every painful moment. Her coaching style is warm, reassuring and full of compassion. There was never anything but deep love in every word in every conversation. On one particular phone call, I was at my darkest. We spoke for some time and at the end she encouraged me to take a walk in the woods. Reluctantly, I did what she suggested, and I was amazed at the results. She knew just what I needed to make a shift. Through her experiences, Patty knows the pain associated with divorce. And because of that she has come out the other side, full of insights and deep compassion to share with others. I am deeply grateful to Patty for all of her compassionate coaching."  - Jessica