patty blue hayes 

patty blue hayes 

The Wound is where the light enters ~ Rumi

If you've found your way here, perhaps you are going through a painful time in your life. A loss of a love, a heartbreak. 

I'd been through a lot of losses from physical deaths of loved ones, but when my marriage ended (abruptly, with discovery of infidelity) it absolutely broke me. 

I saw my whole identity as being by husband's wife and I derived my value as a person only as a reflection of what he thought of me. My beliefs and lack of autonomy significantly intensified the crippling pain I felt. 

As a writer, I immediately began to journal about the experience in my book, Wine, Sex & Suicide - My Near Death Divorce, which chronicles the dark days and manic nights when life as I knew it ceased to exist.

It's been a long journey and today, as a certified trainer of the personal empowerment program Infinite Possibilities and life coach, I'm taking my story of pain to purpose to help others through my coaching, writing and products. I share the tools and techniques that helped me heal my broken heart. And I'm always discovering new modalities to share. 

I created Soul Garden Healing®, a company offering products and services such as my 12 week audio program, You Can Heal Your Heartbreak™. 

The Seed does not become a blossom overnight ~ 

I'd love to hear from you. Have a question about your situation? Ask me.                                       for media requests, contact

Looking for a community of people healing from heartbreak? join my private facebook group, soul garden healing, for comfort and support from others just like you.

Suicide Rates are 3 Times Higher for Divorced People

According to a study from the National Institute of Healthcare Research in Rockville, MD. If you know someone going through a divorce, please have the National Suicide Hotline number on-hand. 800-273-8255.

Please reach out to me for advice on how to support your friend or family member through divorce. 

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